How to Have Anal Sex
Regardless of whether it is your first time or not, you are no doubt looking for tips on how to perform anal sex so that it can be enjoyed by both of you.
The first thing to do if you are a man is to know whether or not your partner is willing to try anal sex. Whatever you do, don’t assume it will be okay and surprise her one day by ‘accidentally on purpose’ putting your penis in her ass. She won’t thank you for it. Talk to her about it. But be prepared, some women find the mere thought of anal sex a turn off. But the cornerstone of any lasting sexual relationship is communication.
Explore her anus gently to begin with. Try not to make her anus the focal point of your attention at first. Simply caress it gently with a finger while kissing and stroking her. If you go straight to her anus and stay there, it is going to make her tense - and that is the last thing you want. Integrate a little anal play into your other sex techniques. Couple it with something you know she really enjoys - for example, use your tongue on her clitoris while moving your finger gently around her anus. Eventually, slip the finger gently inside her anus - just a little way in continue pleasuring her in other ways.
If she hasn’t stopped you yet then this is a good indication that she may be willing to go the whole way and allow you to have anal sex with her. But again - go slow. Take it easy and slow right down. You could even take your finger out at this point and spend some time on another part of her body before eventually going back to the anus once she is even more aroused.
You may even have to wait a few times before you get to have anal sex with her. Just remember - whatever she says is law when it comes to her own body. The anus takes a lot of training to prepare it for that ultimate intrusion - your penis. If she tells you to stop - then stop. Or you can kiss your anal adventures goodbye.
Once your partner is ready for the full-on anal sex, then bear these things in mind.
- Use lubricant and lots of it. The walls of her anus are very thin and prone to tearing. Without lubricant you will more than likely cause a rip in her anal wall. It will also make it much more pleasurable for both of you.
- Without wanting to insult your intelligence - there are a whole lot of bacteria inside her anus (no matter how clean she is). If you take your penis from her anus and put it into her vagina then she will be prone to an infection.
- It’s a very good idea to wear a condom during anal sex. As I mentioned, the anus is tight and friction will be much worse than in the vagina so you will want to buy a strong, plain condom.
Anal sex can be extremely enjoyable for both lovers. Take it slow, be responsible and above all - listen to her. Let her be your guide, respect her wishes and it won’t be long before anal sex is a regular part of your sex life.
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