Oral sex for some people can be the most intimate and pleasurable part of sex. But learning how to have oral sex can be daunting. It is difficult to get something so pleasurable wrong, but there are ways to improve your oral sex techniques to make it even more intense.

Pleasing your man: Any man will tell you that there is no such thing as a bad blow job. Oral sex is extremely arousing for any man and a woman who actually enjoys pleasing her man in this way are very much appreciated by her partner.

As with all things sexual it is best to start off slowly with oral sex if you are unsure how to proceed in a way that you know your partner enjoys. You must think in terms of making love to your partners genitals by not only just taking his penis into your mouth but gently kissing along the full length of it, caressing his scrotum with your hands or moving a hand or both hands up and down along the shaft to the rhythm of the sucking. This simulates the thrusting motion experienced by men during intercourse. If you are enjoying pleasuring your man with oral sex then let him know by making little groans of pleasure while you are sucking his penis. The gentle vibrations caused by this noise can be felt on the penis and can accentuate the pleasure.

Pleasing your woman: Women often get frustrate with men who don’t know how to have oral sex. A womans clitoris is the place to go for providing extreme oral sex pleasure. The clitoris is engorged with thousands of nerve endings and is extremely sensitive to the touch. Whatever you do don’t jump straight for her clitoris and start chewing on it. You’re likely to turn her off rather than turn her on.

Use your tongue and lips gently around her clitoris, even using gentle breath can be felt and is arousing. When she becomes more aroused the clitoris will become more pronounced. At this point you should start gently kissing and sucking the clitoris between your lips. Try to build a rhythm gently and gradually with no harsh, sudden movements. You may find as she becomes more aroused that she starts to grind gently. This is an excellent indication of the kind of tempo she wants you to perform oral sex at. Go with it and blend with her.

Although the clitoris should be the focal point when giving oral sex to your woman, this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t pay attention to anywhere else. Use your hands creatively, moving them around her hips and stomach area. You might also want to slip a finger into her vagina while pleasuring her with your tongue. Some women aren’t keen on this while it will drive others wild. Experiment and see. You should also pay some attention to her labia and vagina. Although not as sensitive as her clitoris it will provide variation to your oral sex technique. You can pay attention to these areas and only briefly touch hre clitoris with your tongue in order to tease her. But make sure you ‘head’ to the clitoris before too long.

Experiment with your partner and encourage them to give you feedback on your oral sex technique. Let them tell you what they like. Allow them to have full control of the oral sex you are giving them and you will quickly learn how to take them to knew heights of pleasure.

Oral sex is all about giving. So pay close attention to your partners reaction to your technique and adapt accordingly.

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